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What You’ll Learn (And Why You’ll Thank Yourself Later)
Stay calm when the family is acting… well, like your family.
Master the art of saying “no” without guilt (or prosecution).
Handle holiday drama like an emotional ninja — quietly and efficiently.
Redirect bragging and one-upping with grace (and humor).
Survive gift-giving guilt trips without going broke.
Protect your peace like it’s the last slice of sweet potato pie.
The Holidays Are Beautiful… Until People Show Up
Between the cooking, the cleaning, the coordinating, the personalities, and the people who magically forget how to behave…
the holidays can go from peaceful to chaotic in 0.3 seconds. Suddenly you're juggling everyone else’s expectations while trying not to throw the whole tree out the window.
And let’s be honest — there’s always that one person who brings drama wrapped in tinsel. Or the one who critiques your cooking. Or the one who asks inappropriate questions like it’s their job. By Christmas Eve, you’re one comment away from filing emotional bankruptcy.
That’s exactly why I created this guide — your personal, witty, no-nonsense strategy book for surviving the season with your peace, your patience, and your freedom intact. Whether it’s family gatherings, gift-giving guilt trips, or surprise chaos, this eBook gives you the insider tools to stay calm, grounded, and gloriously unbothered.
A Sneak Peek Inside the Guide
- How to stay calm when family chaos reaches maximum volume levels.
- What to say when people ask inappropriate questions (with no jail time required).
- How to dodge drama without losing your cool — or your seat at the table.
- Simple tricks to manage big personalities, tight budgets, and overstuffed schedules.
- Mindset shifts that help you protect your peace like a holiday pro.
- The “One-Upper” strategy that saves your sanity every time.
Why This Book Works
✨Because the holidays aren’t going to change — but how you show up for them can.
🎄 It Tells the Truth About Holiday Chaos
Most guides pretend the holidays are magical.
You tell the truth — family drama, messy emotions, tight budgets, and all.
Readers connect instantly because they feel seen.
🎄 It's Funny, Fast, and Practical
These aren’t long lectures.
You give real-world strategies, quick resets, and get-through-it humor that works when emotions — and egos — are high.
🎄 It Helps You Stay Calm & In Control
The book teaches you how to protect your peace, redirect chaos, and stay unbothered (even when other people are not).
Readers walk away centered, prepared, and unshakeable.
🎁 FREE Bonus: Holiday Sanity Checklist
Because sometimes you need a quick, grab-and-go guide you can look at while hiding in the guest bathroom.
This printable checklist gives you:
- Fast reminders to stay calm
- Mini-strategies for drama moments
- Reset prompts when you feel overwhelmed
- A simple way to regain peace when things get loud, messy, or chaotic
It’s included FREE with your purchase of the eBook.
Who This Book Is Perfect For
💫
People Who Feel Overwhelmed Easily
If the holidays drain your energy, patience, or spirit —
this guide will help you stay grounded.
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Anyone Trying to Keep the Peace
If you're the “responsible one,” “the fixer,” or “the strong one,”
this guide protects your peace for once.
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Folks Dealing With Big Personalities
You love your people… but they can be A LOT.
This book helps you stay calm and collected.
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Those Who Want Calm, Not Chaos
Whether you’re hosting, visiting, or running —
these strategies keep you centered and unbothered.
If the holidays exhaust you more than they excite you… this book is definitely for you.
About the Author
Tanya Dixon is an award-winning producer, director, writer, and creative visionary whose career spans film, television, media, and fashion. As the CEO of Tandiland Ventures, Tanya has spent nearly four decades creating stories that blend humor, humanity, and heart — from directing music videos and documentaries to producing original content that celebrates life, love, and laughter.
She’s also the force behind Tandiland Global Productions, Tandiland Serenity Foundation, and Maison Tandi, her luxury fashion brand. Known for her signature mix of honesty and humor, Tanya brings the same wit to her writing that she’s brought to red carpets, recording studios, and stages across the country.
Her mission in this book?
To help people protect their peace during the most chaotic time of the year — with truth, humor, and a little bit of “don’t play with me” wisdom.
When she’s not creating, Tanya continues developing film projects, producing content, mentoring creatives, and building her lifestyle empire one intentional step at a time.
Our 100% Holiday Peace-of-Mind Guarantee
If ‘10 Steps to Survive the Holidays Without Losing Your Mind (or Your Freedom)’ doesn’t help you reclaim your peace, your boundaries, and your sanity this season — simply reach out within 30 days for a full refund.
No guilt. No hassle. No family drama included.
